Monday, July 12, 2010

Thoaì mái và an tâm - thoai mai khi ben nhau va an tam khi xa nhau

Hai chừ tinh yêu có le hơi mô hồ truu tuong ko dien ta duoc cam xuc theo đung nghia theo anh nghi la su thoai maí khi ben nhau va su an tam khi xa nhau đê moi nguoi co the lam nhung gi trong su nghiep tuy vay khi ben chung ta cam thay thoai mai co the noi nhau nghe het moi chuyen mot cách suy tu logic thi fai hop nhau hinh nhu do la nguyen nhan cua moi van de khi ng ta chan nhau (have the right chemistry and compatible). (I feel comfortable when I am with you and worry free when I am far from you). Anh co nhieu dam me co le vi vay den gio anh van mot minh vi minh van co the tiep tuc song mot minh neu quen ai do ma anh cam thay thoai mai khi ben nhau va xa nhau thi van an tam de moi dua lam chuyen rieng cua minh ve su nghiep cua moi nguoi mac du vay khi ben nhau minh cho nhau tat ca ko nghi ngoi gi ca co the cuoi tuan minh di camping nhung thu 2 thi moi nguoi lam chuyen cua minh muon vay thi em fai co nhg dam me nhg gi em thich lam. Anh ko thich song ma 2 dua cai gi cung to to ben nhau em co the lai xe di cho mot minh anh o nha lam viec cua anh. Cu cho dung nghi la fai nhan lai cai gi do la anh roi mot ngay nao nguoi nao ho se nghi ho se biet ma thoi. Mot su tim toi de biet hay hon la mot giai thich thiet thuc. Su nhan thuc hay hon su sai khien, chinh su thoai mai se lam cho ta hieu nhau vat lam nhg thu cho nhau mot cach tu nhien. Ng nhan se nho ve ng cho hon. Cung dung xin loi (love is neverhaving to say you’re sorry) xin loi chang co nghia gi ma minh fai trach nhiem nhg gi minh lam cho nguoi minh yeu yeu la mot hanh dong it is a verb. O day ng ta lam roi xin loi co ve ko thanh that nhu mot nguoi den nha tho rua toi la het. Neu chi co 1 dam me duy nhat la tinh yeu thi de chan nhau lam do la ly do chinh dang khi lay nhau roi nguoi ta moi thay duoc su thuc khi dam me ko con nua nhung neu ngoai dam me ve tinh yeu ta con co nhg dam me khac du trong giay phut that vong nong nai ta van con nhg thu dam me khac de neu keo de hi vong de lam de ko fai bi khac khoai vao mot dam me duy nhat. Vi du thiet thuc nhat khi minh doi mot nguoi nao do minh lam cai gi do trong khi cho doi thay vi chi nhin dong ho va tuc gian, minh se bot gian hay ko gian doi khi nguoi do den tre vi minh it nhat cung lam dc nhieu viec trg cho doi. Khai niem song cua anh la ko tuy thuoc bat cu thu gi tren doi hay bat cu ai tuyet doi du bat cu hoan canh nao minh cung fai tuy thuoc chinh ban than minh truoc. Vi van vat tren doi deu tuong doi gioi hang ma thoi va nhg thu do co the mat di ca ban than minh. Vi vay minh song moi giay phut fai that tron ven. "Live every day like it's your last."
Anh da chung kien rat nhieu cap vo chong song rat chan voi nhau va anh ko muon nhu ho vi ho ko biet lam gi khi ben nhau va tai hai hon khi xa nhau ho cung ko biet lam gi voi thoi gian trong vang. Con nguoi ta fai co nhieu dam me chinh cai ca biet cua dam me hai dua khac nhau no moi quyen ru nhieu hon va bo xung cho nhau. Vang anh dong y la chung ta co nhg dam me going nhau thi moi goi la hop nhau duoc….

Men and Women want when it comes to love. For Men, let’s admit it, our first instinct when looking for our first girlfriend is for us to be her first. We want that girl or woman to be pure and virgin and for some, tend to get possessive and not let go of her which can be attributed to a man’s primal instinct of being territorial not only for territory, but also for his mate. The feeling of being the first one into a woman’s life is always special just like owning and riding a brand new car.
Women, on the other hand, are more sensitive and subtle towards love and romance. Most, if not all, are more patient and don’t mind being the first, second, third, or so on, for their partners, as long as they are the last love of their partner’s life, pertaining to the quote “’til death do us part.”
“You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.”
“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.” Which is true and this quote does not only refer to men, but to women as well.
There is no denying that first impressions last when a man or a woman sees a physically attractive person and becomes interested with her or him. However, to most people, it’s the personality that counts when it comes to falling in love with someone. Love starts with the interaction and relation of two people and bonded by time. Even if a man’s partner is aesthetically challenged, his better half will always be beautiful to his eyes because he’s in love with her.
As for me, what I would quote is that “Love will always be a part of our lives. It is the emotion that make life completed and marry is option it is a long term plan when 2 people are bound by their duties”. Va cai kho nhat tren doi khi nguoi ta chi song voi nhau vi bon phan. Do la cuoc song buon te hon ca cuoc song doc than vi no se lam minh rat kho chiu hon cuoc song doc than mac du doi luc cam nhan su co doc.