Monday, September 14, 2009

Tinh yeu va niem tin

Niem tin la mot yeu to co ban cua tinh yeu, khi yeu nhau thi chac chan rang ta fai tin nhau. Nhieu luc em hoi toi tai sao nhu vay toi khg biet tra loi the nao vi tinh yeu co nhg ngon ngu va ly le rieng cua trai tim, cam giac va cam nhan rat kho giai thich nhat la xuat phat tu con tim. Nhieu luc toi cung khong hieu duoc chinh toi nhg neu gan em toi biet minh hanh phuc cam nhan hoa tan/chemistry va dong loa va tu nhien co the noi bat cu van de gi. Cam nhan nho nhung cung ro rang voi mot nguoi nao do minh thich va quan tam nhg thuong xuat phat tu nhien cung co the mot cau nao do lam minh nho ve nguoi do. Co le nhu da viet ng ta fai dien ta cam giac cai truc giac do bang loi le de nguoi khac co the hieu minh hon.
Tinh yeu khong thich hop voi nhg nguoi da nghi, nhg ng doi tra va thuc te qua co tinh cach tinh toan. Thuc te qua se khg tim duoc cai tinh duy cua tinh yeu, thuc te chi co duoc mot hanh phuc mieng cuong. Niem tin co duoc trong tinh yeu bang su chan that nhat. Mot tinh yeu that su luon co su bao dung vi tha khg thich hop voi nhg ng ich ky.
Khi co duoc niem tin tinh yeu co suc manh vuot qua noi so hai, lam ta cam thay an tam va an ui moi luc dau buon, cam thay that binh an de boc bach nhg boi roi, cho ta loi khuyen de giai quyet nhg mau thuan kho khan, va cung la diem tua de ta tien ve phia truoc. Hy vong la su the hien cua con nguoi khi co mot niem tin. Niem hy vong mang den nhung gi tot dep cho nguoi minh yeu.
niem tin: A feeling of confidence, the sense of confidence
Trust or faith in a person or thing
Hi vong: Hope; to expect and desire
To wish for something with expectation of its fulfillment
In order to expect something we need to have a confidence to succeed.